The Mini-Prep Guide for Men

Most guys feel a little unsure before their session—and that’s totally normal. You won’t be expected to know how to pose, act, or “perform” in front of the camera. From the moment you walk in, we’ll guide you through everything—what to wear, how to stand, where to look, and how to work with expressions and posture that feel natural.

Yes, we offer professional hair styling and makeup for men. It’s subtle, tailored, and designed to make you look polished and camera-ready—without looking overdone. Think: evening out skin tone, covering blemishes, taming shine, and grooming flyaways. It’s not about glam unless that’s what you want.

And if you do want a full glam face? Hell yes—we’ve got you.
We’ll never yuck your yum. Whether your vibe is rugged and raw or edgy and editorial, this space is about expression, not judgment.

We’ll also show you a few shots on the back of the camera as we go. Once you see how badass you look—even in those “weird-feeling” poses—you’ll start to relax. That quick peek usually melts away the nerves fast.

Not at all.
Intimate photography is not about being naked—it’s about being seen, celebrated, and showing up as you. What you wear (or don’t) is completely your call.

Many male clients choose to go shirtless or nude, but that decision is always 100% yours. There’s no pressure. Just options.

🧥 What Should I Wear?

Our Client Closet is currently lingerie-heavy, and we absolutely welcome men, trans men, and nonbinary clients who enjoy wearing lingerie or more traditionally femme styles. You’ll find:

• Harnesses

• Bodysuits & Stockings

• Robes (femme and neutral options)

• Mesh and fitted tanks with an edgy, body-conscious vibe

We’re also actively building a more masculine collection, and it’s growing fast.

That said, we strongly recommend bringing your own wardrobe—pieces that make you feel confident, sexy, and seen. Great options include:

• Boxer briefs, joggers, fitted pants, or jeans

• Solid-colored tanks, open button-ups, hoodies, or leather jackets

• Uniforms, boots, accessories, or personal gear (yes—even fetishwear or props, if that’s your vibe)

Prefer your own gear? Even better. This experience is about authenticity, not dress-up. Whether your style is laid-back, bold, artistic, sensual, gender-fluid, or kinky—we’ll create a space where it feels safe to show up exactly as you are, and honor that version of you in your images.

💯 Bottom Line

You’re always in control of your experience.
Nothing happens without your full consent. Whether your vibe is soft, powerful, gender-bending, rugged, or vulnerable—we’re here to capture what feels real to you, without pressure, without judgment, and without limits.

Most clients book 4-6 months in advance, but some book the following week.

It depends on how soon you’d like to come in and what we have available. If we are accommodating a particular date, such as a birthday or anniversary, please remember that printed orders can take up to eight weeks to arrive, so please schedule accordingly. We can book as far out as 18 months.

We believe in full transparency—and we believe that investing in yourself should feel exciting, not overwhelming. This experience is about celebrating who you are, how you show up, and capturing that in a way that feels powerful, personal, and unforgettable.

📸 Session Rates

• The Full-Day Boudoir Experience starts at $750

• Erotic Experiences begin at $1000

Every session includes:

• Complimentary professional hair styling and makeup (yes, for men too—whether that’s simple grooming, shine control, and blemish coverage, or a full glam look with contour, lashes, and bold expression. You decide how you want to show up—we’re here for all of it.)

• Access to our evolving Client Lingerie Closet, including select masculine and expressive pieces (harnesses, bodysuits, mesh, robes, tanks)

• Full posing and expression guidance—you’ll never be left guessing

• A private, same-day image reveal + ordering session where you’ll see your images on the big screen and feel like a damn star ✨

• Professional editing and enhancements on all purchased images

Note: Digital images and printed artwork are purchased separately.

We offer luxury collections and à la carte options starting at $750. Most clients invest between $3,500–$5,000, but what you choose to spend is entirely up to you. We’ll help you create the perfect collection that aligns with your vision and your budget.

💳 Flexible Payment Options

We offer multiple flexible ways to make your dream session happen:

• ✅ The Boudie Bank – our in-house, zero-interest pre-payment plan

• ✅ Affirm

• ✅ PayPal Credit

• ✅ Klarna

You can split your investment into manageable monthly payments—interest-free—and walk into your session with everything already taken care of.

We’ll go over all payment options during your phone consultation and send our full Creative Collection + À La Carte Menus once you book.

⚠️ A Note About Fit

If you’re looking for a quick shoot or just a few snapshots, we might not be the right fit.

But if you're ready for a full-day, luxury experience with over 100 stunning images, handcrafted products, expert guidance, and a confidence boost that stays with you long after the session—you’re exactly where you’re meant to be.