Thinking About a Boudoir By J Anderson Experience? Here’s Your Mini‑Prep Guide

The Mini-Prep Guide for Women

Pro tips for an amazing intimate photography experience!

Hello Gorgeous!

Thinking about booking your intimate photography experience?


I bet you’re curious—and maybe a little nervous—about what it’s like. That’s exactly why I created this Mini‑Prep Guide. It’s a sneak peek at some of our favorite tips to help you feel confident, comfortable, and ready for the camera.

These are just suggestions—you can do as much or as little as you’d like when the time comes. Honestly, your biggest “task” is simply showing up. It’s our job to make you look amazing in your images, not yours.

When you book, my incredible transformation team and I will take care of the rest. From start to finish, we’ve got you. ❤️

Curvy blonde woman in black lace lingerie wearing a crown and applying makeup during a boudoir photography session.

Prep Tips for Women Considering an Intimate Photography Session

  • Think about the mood you want—soft and romantic, bold and sultry, playful and flirty, or a mix. Your style will help guide outfit choices and set the tone for your session.

  • Browse lingerie brands, Pinterest boards, or our own client wardrobe highlights. Even if you don’t book right away, it’s fun to start envisioning your looks.

  • Hydrate, moisturize, and get plenty of rest in the weeks before your shoot. Glowing, healthy skin photographs beautifully.

  • Skip spray tans, self-tanner, and tanning beds—studio lighting works best with your natural skin tone, and we can add warmth in post‑production if you want it.

  • We see them in almost every shot, so tidy nails in a neutral or classic color will look timeless in photos.

  • You decide what you’re comfortable wearing and revealing. Intimate Photography is for every body, every personality, and every level of sexy—from cozy sweater to nothing at all.

    From soft and sweet to bold and daring, we offer Headshots, Branding, Glam, Boudoir, Couples, Erotic, Fetish, and Kink photography.

  • our boudoir experience isn’t just about what you wear—it’s about how you feel in your own skin. One of the best ways to start building that connection is through simple affirmations.

    Here’s your assignment:
    Stand in front of a mirror, look at your body, and say these out loud:

    • "My body is good."

    • "My body deserves kindness."

    • "I deserve goodness."

    Do this daily in the days leading up to your session—or as you’re considering booking—and notice how it shifts the way you see yourself.

    If looking at your body in the mirror feels hard, approach it with gentle curiosity and kindness. Speak to yourself the way you would to a 10‑year‑old girl—what would you say to her? Chances are, those words are exactly what you need, too.

  • Boudoir posing is sneaky exercise—so why not warm up for it? Head to our Ladies’ VIP Group on Facebook (Boudoir By J Anderson: The Ladies’ VIP Lounge) or check out our website gallery to see some of our favorite poses.

    Try a few at home (yes, even if you feel silly). It’s just about getting your body used to the moves so they feel natural later. We’ll pose you perfectly on shoot day—promise!

    Bonus: While you stretch, say these out loud:

    • "I will listen to my body."

    • "I trust that my body will do what bodies do best."

    • "I move my body because I love my body."

  • Check out our Instagram and Private Ladies’ VIP Facebook Group for behind‑the‑scenes peeks, client transformations, and wardrobe favorites. Seeing real sessions will give you ideas and boost your confidence.

Confident plus-size woman in lingerie posing during a boudoir photo session at Boudoir By J Anderson studio.

Frequently Asked Questions

  • Don’t worry—most of our clients start out feeling nervous. It’s completely normal. You’ll be in great hands from the moment you arrive. We’ll guide you through the entire experience—what to wear, hair and makeup, every pose, and even facial expressions.

    We’ll also show you a few images on the back of the camera as we go, so you can see for yourself that all those “crazy” poses really do look incredible. This simple peek tends to melt away any nerves fast.

  • Of course not! Intimate photography is not about being naked—it’s about being seen and celebrated, exactly how youwant to show up.

    While many of our clients do end up going partially or fully nude—sometimes even unexpectedly!—that decision is always 100% yours. Before your experience, you’ll complete a private questionnaire where you can share your comfort level around nudity, lingerie, and how much you'd like to be encouraged to step outside your comfort zone (or not!).

    Even lingerie is optional. Some clients wear bodysuits, robes, or cozy sweaters. Others go sheer or bold. All clients have full access to our 600+ piece Client Closet, filled with styles that range from lacy and classic to daring and edgy. Or, feel free to bring your own outfits that reflect your personality and vision.

    Bottom line: You’re in control of your experience. Always.

  • Most clients book 4-6 months in advance, but some book the following week.

    It depends on how soon you’d like to come in and what we have available. If we are accommodating a particular date, such as a birthday or anniversary, please remember that printed orders can take up to eight weeks to arrive, so please schedule accordingly. We can book as far out as 18 months.

  • Item descriptionWe believe in full transparency, and we also believe that investing in yourself should feel exciting—not overwhelming.

    Our full-day Boudoir Experience starts at $750, and Erotic Experiences begin at $1000. Every session includes:

    • Complimentary hair styling, makeup, and lashes

    • Access to our 600+ piece Client Wardrobe and Shoe Closet

    • Full posing and expression guidance throughout your shoot

    • A private, same-day image reveal and ordering session—where you’ll see your images on the big screen and feel like a Hollywood star ✨

    • Professional editing and enhancements on all purchased images

    Digital images and printed artwork are purchased separately. We offer beautifully curated product collections and à la carte options starting at $750. Most of our clients invest between $3,500–$5,000, but what you choose to spend is entirely up to you—we’ll help you find the perfect fit for your vision and budget.

    💳 Flexible Payment Options
    We offer interest-free, customizable payment plans for every client. You choose what works for you—pay a little each month, so by the time your session arrives, everything is taken care of.

    We’ll walk you through all the pricing options during your phone consultation, and we’ll send the full Creative Collection + À La Carte Menus after booking.

    If you’re looking for a “quick shoot” or just a few images, we may not be the right studio. But if you're ready for a full-day luxury experience, with 100+ jaw-dropping final images, handcrafted products, and a feeling that lasts forever—you're in the right place.

The countdown is on, and I can’t wait to spoil you! You now have a sneak peek at some of our favorite tips and tricks to make your experience amazing—but the full magic happens once you book.

Until then, start dreaming, start planning, and start picturing yourself in front of the camera. Your transformation is waiting.

Not sure if you’re ready? Got questions? Or maybe just butterflies? That’s totally normal. Let’s talk it all through, no pressure. This call is your chance to ask anything, get to know the experience, and see if we’re the right fit for each other.👇

Black and white portrait of Jennifer Anderson, award-winning boudoir and intimate photographer, featuring her professional achievements.